I used to have this parchment poster on my wall in Canada

             Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
    and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender,
    be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others,
Even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
For always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
It is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs,
    for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
Many persons strive for high ideals,
    and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
    for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment 
It is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
    gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
    no less than the trees and the stars;
You have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
No doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
    whatever you conceive Him to be,
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
In the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
    it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

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Written about 15 years ago…

Kindness is just an expression of the Truth of Existence.
No Walls is just the Way It Is, and Kindness is simply
          the manifestation of that Truth in your own Life.

And as you manifest It more, you Realize It more:
Truth starts to permeate your whole Way of Being,
and you become empowered by It.
You encompass More, you become Greater,
          gradually becoming Vast as the Sky…

Then, if you know how to Listen,
others also express their Truth,
          whether or not they are even aware of it;
and that Truth teaches you, nourishes you, is you…
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Yup…

I meant to do my work today,
But a brown bird sang in the apple tree,
And a butterfly flitted across the field,
And all the leaves were calling me.
And the wind went sighing over the land,
Tossing the grasses to and fro,
And a rainbow held out its shining hand–
So what could I do but laugh and go?

– Richard Le Gallienne

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Michel de Montaigne: La Vraie Philosophie


L’ame qui loge la philosophie, doit par sa sante rendre sain encores le corps:
elle doit faire luyre jusques au dehors son repos, et son aise:
doit former a son moule le port exterieur,
et l’armer par consequent d’une gratieuse fierte,
d’un maintien actif, et allaigre, et d’une contenance contante et debonnaire.
La plus expresse marque de la sagesse, c’est une esjouissance constante:
son estat est comme des choses au dessus de la lune, tousjours serein.

C’est Baroco et Baralipton, qui rendent leurs supposts ainsi crotez et enfumez;
ce n’est pas elle, ils ne la cognoissent que par ouyr dire.
Comment ? elle faict estat de sereiner les tempestes de l’ame,
et d’apprendre la faim et les fiebvres a rire:
non par quelques Epicycles imaginaires,
mais par raisons naturelles et palpables.

Elle a pour son but, la vertu: qui n’est pas, comme dit l’eschole,
plantee a la teste d’un mont coupe, rabotteux et inaccessible.
Ceux qui l’ont approchee, la tiennent au rebours,
logee dans une belle plaine fertile et fleurissante:
d’ou elle void bien souz soy toutes choses;
mais si peut on y arriver, qui en scait l’addresse,
par des routtes ombrageuses, gazonnees, et doux fleurantes;
plaisamment, et d’une pante facile et polie,
comme est celle des voutes celestes.

Pour n’avoir hante cette vertu supreme, belle, triumphante,
amoureuse, delicieuse pareillement et courageuse,
ennemie professe et irreconciliable d’aigreur,
de desplaisir, de crainte, et de contrainte,
ayant pour guide nature, fortune et volupte pour compagnes:
ils sont allez selon leur foiblesse, faindre cette sotte image,
triste, querelleuse, despite, menaceuse, mineuse,
et la placer sur un rocher a l’escart, emmy des ronces:
fantosme a estonner les gents…

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Two Wisdoms

I’ve recently been feeling that there are two kinds of Wisdom:
the Wisdom of the Heart, and that of the Head.

The
Wisdom of the Heart, our Occidental/Christian/Greek Wisdom, teaches us
that we are all Individuals, unique and irreplaceable. We have our own
personal vision of things, and (crazy as some of us may seem!) each has
its own validity, its own worth, and is a priceless contribution to the
Whole. As Pablo Neruda (?) said, when a person dies, a whole world
disappears with them…
Of course, when two Individuals like this
get together, well, a Beautiful New Thing appears between them, too.
Two individuals, unique on earth, finding each other, discovering,
understanding, enjoying each other with all their insights and
crazinesses, and their love for each other creates a special bond that
is so amazing that it feels like it could outlast Time and Death…

And
then there’s the Wisdom of the Head, the
Eastern/Buddhist/Hindu Wisdom that teaches that All Things Will Pass:
this world is just part of a mind-blowingly huge Galaxy, and one
day the galaxy itself will disappear. We are, after all, so very, very
Small…
There are what, over six BILLION people on earth? Of which I am one? And I can still think that I matter? Why don’t I just See that
all my problems are really so very unimportant, that the little
Tempests in Teapots that I create in my daily life are actually pretty ridiculous?
And that if I have a relationship, how can I expect the other to be perfect, and to always be there for me? How can I possibly hope that the other will never
change, leave or die, that I will never change, leave or die, that we will be Together, in
our Perfect Hollywood Happiness, Forever? Can’t I see the Reality of how feelings and people change and disappear
as we go through our Crazy Lives?
And after all, there are so many people I could have been attracted to: I just happened to meet and love this
particular person because of certain circumstances in my life which
were totally random, and completely out of my control…

The Heart is
Personal,
   Subjective,
      Feeling-Based,
         Complicated,
            Harrowing,
               Loving,
                  Involved…
The Head is
Universal,
   Objective,
      Vision-Based,
         Simple,
            Light,
               Independent,
                  Free…

The Head says:
There are other fish in the sea: don’t worry, you’ll get over it…
And the Heart says:
You will remember her, you will remember him, forever…

The weird thing is, they’re both right

I have a Heart and I have a Head: I want to respect both of these Wisdoms.
Some people in my life matter so much to me.
They are part of me, not only part of my personal
history, my past,
but they are in my thoughts even from moment to moment,
and they continue to affect me in so many ways.
Their vision of their worlds, their joys
and their sadnesses, change me:
I am so deeply Connected to them…
When I
lose contact with them, I wonder so often:
Where are they? How are they doing?
And yet
I know that life still goes on,
and I see the sun
rise again in beautiful blue skies with white cotton clouds;
I
have other friends, and in this Crazy World, Shit Happens…
There
is even a kind of Cosmic Humor there, after all,
that I
should take myself and my feelings about them so Seriously…
And yet I still enjoy them so much,
and when they’re gone I miss them so much…

So how is it possible that these two Wisdoms could exist side by side?
Well, they do

And I don’t want to choose One,
and pretend that the Other doesn’t exist…

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Good Advice

One morning recently I opened one of my favorite books, and here is what it told me: 

When the Spirit Moves You,
take off your shoes and slowly walk through the fragrant fields,
and the birds will forget their fears of nets and traps,
and alight,
and follow you as you walk along…

When Nature and your Heart,
Inside and Outside,
are One,
and the cherry blossoms are being gently scattered by the spring wind,
then loosen your collar,
sit quietly,
meditatively,
under a tree perhaps,
and the white clouds will slow their progress through the sky,
and stop, and wait awhile for you to rise…

Saikontan, Book II, poem 107

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L’Education

Ca ne doit pas etre un Gavage d’informations qui detruit notre Foi en nous memes…
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